Just figured out the epitome of what I am looking for in a person. "Someone I can be with at the end of the day". It actually took me a while to set my standards, and it just keeps on evolving. Like before my standard is basically someone I can have a serious conversation with, and shallow laughter is a no-no. But I figured out that it's boring. Humor plays a big part in a workable relationship.
Maybe this "Someone I can be with at the end of the day" stuff is why I object on courtship so much. Courtship fundamentally relies on that romantic ecstasy, concealing the true colors of an individual. It suggests a different persona for the other person. That's probably why so many marriages and relationships turn haywire. People get disappointed and frustrated because they did not get what they were hoping for, or rather what they thought they have, and just decides to end it. Honestly, I don't believe in traditional relationships, where there are chocolates or flowers. To have a fulfilling relationship, all we need is to be honest with our partners, and let fate take its course.
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